Have you saved your marriage when it was on the brink?

[Seaviewsunshine]

I feel like DH and I are almost at that point when one of us could throw in the towel. Mainly due to a succession of difficult times; DJ suffered a terrible incident, 2 small children who were reflux/allergy babies, pnd, house move & full renovation, career change, financial troubles, DH has had health worries etc. All in the space of 3 years. We’ve been together a long time but we’re somehow surviving...just but it feels v fragile. I really feel like my DH dislikes me (I used to feel adored). We don’t have sex anymore and actually he can barely look at me or have a conversation. He has retreated into himself and shut down. I’m struggling to get through to him. Anyone been here and somehow got through it??

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I do not know what to advise you
You must decide for yourself to be with him and try to arrange things as you like, or leave

Maybe you both need a break? Could one of you move out and rent somewhere else for 6 months. Take the pressure off? I know a couple who did this and it helped them find each other again

I think a break might help too but financially we can’t afford to do that. My job is poorly paid and I work unsociable hours when he’s home. If he left I’d have to give up my job as I couldn’t get any ‘free’ childcare.

Thanks for the links. Will have a read.

Sounds like your DH has fallen out of love with you, sadly. Not uncommon when the realities of family life kick in.