Ex is obsessed with fiancés family and us!

[Littlemomk]

So myself and my partner have been together 10 years apart 2 (in that time things weren't working out both went into relationships) fast forward we have been back together almost 3 years now, completely moved on in our life, planning our wedding, expanded our family and all that jazz.
He has an ex whom he has 2 kids with, big part of our lives no issues seeing them, regular contact etc. (They we're together before we meet and ended relationship before we met also£
But the ex he was with while we were apart well she won't go away lol.
She's always in his sisters, sharing photos of them together, and in his mums they all live in same street.
Does she look like a fool? What is her game plan because they have been apart for 3 years, they have no ties whatsoever, his family say they don't like her but have her in company?
It's so confusing

So he has children with her? Surely they are the reason the family socialise and see her? How old are the children? They are the tie she will have to the family...

I’m confused by the timeline.

There is an ex that he was with before the op they have the children.
There is another other ex is from when the op and her oh were split for 2 years, this ex has no children and it’s this ex that won’t go away.

How does she share photos of your fiance? On social media?

In what ways is she obsessed with you and your kids?

Was she a friend of your fiance's family before they got together?

If she's only friends with them thru your fiance, then I would ask fiance to have a word with his family that it makes you and him uncomfortable that she is always there.

Without being rude why shouldn’t she be friends with her neighbours? Why shouldn’t she post nights out with them on FB?

Just block her and you won’t ever see the posts.

The SIL and MIL can’t dislike her that much or they wouldn’t see her.

Did she know them before your dp and them were together?

Tbh, i am close to my best friends family. Her mum is like my mum. I dated her brother for a while. No way was I cutting contact with my best friend, her kids and her mum. We had to suck it up, act like grown ups.

Now me and the brother had good friends. If his new girlfriend didnt like me being here, it would be tough.

If she likes essays or tbe Street and is friendly with the sister why is this a problem? Unless the problem is your insecurity. You can't just vanish her away. Is she actually impacting or your life with your partner at all?

If she lives on the Street*