Met my partner 4 years ago lived together for 2 about to get keys to our house we’ve just brought soon. Today I’ve been ill with the flu he’s been working from home. He came into our room started chatting to me while playing with my hed band that was on the window sill. he through it to me and asked where it lived as it was taking up room and he couldn’t close the curtain it’s quite a big band. I through it back and said anywhere as I was half asleep shivering. he placed it on the floor and refused to pick it up ended up with me telling him to pick it up and not leave. He then left and that was that untill he came in again later to check on me and did the same again with some deodorant that wasn’t in the way just on top of my shoe rack. He through it at the bed along with other stuff he had started to tidy up I said to stop and tomorrow I would tidy up when I was better. He wouldn’t stop or put back that was on the bed I was trying to sleep so I through the scarf and deodorant back towards where he was while telling him to bugger back to work and leave me alone. The deodorant hit him on the leg by accident not hard at all considering I’m so weak at the moment. He got really angry and through the roll on deodorant at the wall it cracked explodeded everywhere and stained the wall. I was scAred seeing him so angry. I apologised for Hitting him didn’t get one back either. He said he didn’t mean to scare me but he would rather hit the wall and release any tension than ever take it out on me he said he would never do anything to me at all. I feel like we act like such children. It’s giving me second thoughts to owning a house with him I don’t no what to do this has never happened before.