Just looking for a bit of advice!
My gran, god love her, is quite possibly THE most negative person I have ever met. Everything is terrible/awful/going to go wrong. However she also is one of my best friends, helped raise me and is generally wonder woman.
I think she is currently really struggling with the concept of me not being a child anymore and when we speak on the phone weekly she is always negative about my life/plans/etc. I have always been able to tell her everything so it's really getting me down. Eg I am trying to conceive and just got a promotion- apparently I am too young to do either!
She lives in Wales and I live in Scotland which means I don't see her as much as I'd like due to work etc. However I just moved and now have a spare bedroom and she is coming to stay for the first time in about six months! I am really, really, really excited to see her but I am also worried about the negativity side and how she will judge my life when she's here :( She's here for a week and I really want to enjoy it and have good quality time with her but I also don't want to spend 7 days feeling like crap.
Any advice on riding over it/ignoring it/etc?