I met this guy on a dating app about 3 months ago, and we've spoken everyday since. We went on our first date, which was the first time meeting in-person, about 2 months ago. We kissed on our first date and said that we liked each other after two dates. But other than that things have been moving pretty slowly. He seems to be a busy person so dates were two weeks apart, with us only going on 4 dates in the two months that we'd known each other in-person. He also didn't initiate the dates, but we were speaking everyday.
I was happy to take things slowly but I wanted to get to know him better in person, so I suggested meeting up again a week after our fourth date. He said he was busy all weekend with his friend, but then went on a spontaneous night out on the Friday. To me it seemed like he wasn't making the time, so I started to think that perhaps he didn't actually like me that much. I was a bit hurt and confused, but as we weren't in a relationship there wasn't anything I could really do. I decided to just go out with some friends that weekend and enjoy myself. However, on the night out I ended up drunkenly kissing two random guys. This was completely out of character for me as I don't usually kiss strangers. Also when I start dating someone I like, I generally stop showing interest in other guys.
I know that I technically didn't cheat as we aren't exclusive or anything, but I still really guilty about it for some reason. I debated telling him when it happened but I figured it would be weirder to mention it as we weren't really that close at that point, despite dating for 2/3 months. We also hadn't slept together, or had a talk about whether it was going anywhere. I decided to leave it and two weeks later we met up for our fifth date and ended up sleeping together. He now seems to be showing more interest and we seem to be getting closer. I genuinely believe that he's just a reserved person and is new to the whole dating thing, which is why things have been going slowly. Now I know things are finally getting serious though, I'm starting to feel guilty about having kissed those two guys. I do really do like him and haven't been romantically involved with anyone else since we started talking. I will also never see those two guys again.
I'm just confused about whether I should actually feel guilty or not? I also don't know whether I need to tell him? The whole relationship between us has been pretty confusing due to it progressing so slowly over a longish period of time, so I'm just really lost as to whether I actually did anything wrong. It would be good to see other people's views on the situation because I'm totally lost. 