Am I over-reacting

[Lou0390]

Looking for advice my DP has gone away on "lads weekend" and we have a DD toddler I am also heavily pregnant. I don't mind him going away especially as he works hard etc.

He was in contact today to say he would be home by lunch time, then it was later afternoon and then evening. I haven't been able to get hold of him but I can see he is back in our town enjoying some beers!

I'm so frustrated and a bit lonely! I don't know if I'm over reacting, is it pregnancy hormones or am expecting too much.

He is being a dick.

Gave you sent him lots of messages?
Is being more stubborn about not coming 'running home' because he is getting lots of messages whilst out with the lads?

Not ok behaviour, but it seems some think it is...

He's just got carried away, once you start drinking and having a good time it can be difficult to stop. I wouldn't dwell on it if it's a one off or not something that happens very often

*have not gave

I'd be peeved but I'd not fall out about it and I'd expect him to pull his weight tomorrow and let me rest.

I think if it’s a one off I’d probably talk to him tomorrow and let him know how hurt you are and if he’s genuinely sorry and makes it up to you then just let it go. If this is a regular thing he clearly isn’t a family man and is not at the same stage of life as you are. I’d be giving ultimatums.

Thanks everyone took your advice and have just let it go tonight and will talk tomorrow when he isn't drunk.