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If a guy said..

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ItsASairFecht · 31/03/2018 18:38

"I'm not in a good place for a relationship now but I'm not saying no for the future" what would you take from that? Not for me, but DD was on a sort of date and the guy told her this. I'm not sure if it's a positive or negative.

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TheNaze73 · 01/04/2018 14:20

He’s see her for sex, if he didn’t have a better option that night but, that’s about it

Orangecake123 · 01/04/2018 14:48

Stay away.

Been there and have the T-shirt. He did nothing but mess with my head for a year.

mindboggled88 · 01/04/2018 18:51

Wants to shag you without any consequences.

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ItsASairFecht · 02/04/2018 18:58

Today he went online and bought her something special. Very mixed messages.

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Whocansay · 02/04/2018 19:02

Block and delete. Who needs this kind of head-fuck?

Send the gift back. Whatever it is, it does not buy him access to inside her knickers.

Hernameisdeborah · 02/04/2018 19:06

He's keeping her dangling. He doesn't want commitment but he also doesn't want her to find anyone else in case he wants her later. In other words, she should block him and get him out of her life sharpish.

RebelliousStarrChild · 02/04/2018 19:12

Not mixed messages at all, it's very clear. He doesn't want a relationship he wants to have no strings sex but is willing to put the charm on to get it. If your daughter falls for it the next thing she will hear is that "he told her from the beginning he didn't want a relationship..." I agree with whoever said to return the gift.

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