Ok, me and husband have been together for nearly 10 years, married for 9 months and we have a 3 year old DS.
Initally, we were always at it, multiple times a day, as any new couples are. Slowly dwindled.
4 years into our relationship we started IVF. For the next 3 years, we experienced multiple miscarriages and IVF's but finally we won and the prize was our beautiful son.
Obviously, all this going on, had a real impact on our sex life and have never got it back.
Since being married, its been hard and our relationship became strained. But in the last 2 months, things are so much better and im happy. But...
We havent had sex in 6 months!
Its not easy for us to have opportunity as 5 nights a week he is at work (he works nights) and at the wkend, i ALWAYS go to bed earlier than he does.
I will be honest, although i like sex, im not overly bothered by it, its not the most important aspect of our marriage and id be happy for perhaps once a month.
I have mentioned to my husband on a few occasions how long its been and that he should come to bed with his wife more than he does (he comes to bed with me maybe once every other month or so)
How can i make this better?