Can't get over him

[wanttomoveon]

I can't get over my xp. We split up a long time ago but I can't move on. I have tried to forget him and have cut all contact with him, packed away everything that reminds me of him but nothing seems to work. I think about him all the time - he's the first thing I think of in the morning and last thing at night. It's driving me mad. I really want to move on but I just can't no matter what I try. I am in such a rut becasue of it. How can I stop living in the past?

hi wanttomoveon. i cant offer much advice at the moment, as ive only just recently split up wiv xdp who ive loved for four years, even when i was with someone else. the only thing i can find to move on is to think of the bad things about him, and why its best to be without him. i hope one day i can look back and think of the happy times and not miss him too much. sorry i cant be of much help, just wanted you to know that im in the same boat xxx

Is it possible to work through the reasons why you split up do you feel you have done something you regret if so then you need to work out why you did what you did and feel comfortable that at the time with the information you had you nade the right decision - is there any thing you could do to fill in time so youhave soemthing worthwhile going on in your life now