he won't show me where he lives

[CatStacks]

but he is obsessed with me
I been seeing him since August last year
he want to have sex unprotected and always ask but doesn't want to show me where he lives
I have cut him off twice and he has come to my work or the other I day I saw him in town I know he saw my car and waited for me to go back to it

he does a lot for me I give him that but anytime i mention to go to his house he says yeah then does not phone me and doesn't answer his phone or says he is tired

I have spoken to him when he is at home alone I don't think he is married or has a gf living there so what is it?

I'm actually so put off by him I don't even want to carry on the relationship tbh

For fuck's sake, this isn't a relationship. Stop seeing him immediately and get some counselling as to why you would continue seeing someone who behaves like this. Seriously, that's just bloody weird.

He’s married or has a GF living there. Or he lives in an utter shit hole. Either way, dump and run.

He lives with his parents, or a partner. I cant see why else he would avoid it and also not explain why.

Thats the least of your worries though. You are on the right lines not carrying on...

I don't know why you would want to even see his house if you are put off with him.
But...tbh that's the least of your worries. Your post is quite eratic and doesn't really make much sense.
I would just cut all contact, ignore him if you see him and maybe consider not dating until you're in a place to make firm good choices.

Have you Googled his name??!

Wants unprotected sex
Waits and follows you home
Stops calling
Doesn't answer phone
Pretends to be tired
Comes to your work

He's creepy as fuck without the house thing. Run like fuck

He's not your boyfriend, he's your stalker. Weirdly, stalkers are a bit hypocritical when it comes to giving out their own addresses. Contact the police, contact women's aid. Get this freak out of your life.

He's a stalker.

Contact the police? And say what? Someone I thought was my boyfriend wouldn't tell me where he lives? Yeah, I'm sure they'll rush round with blue lights flashing for that.

Relationship?

RUN

Whoa...this is weird! You get that right? He’s just using you for sex. He wants unprotected sex but won’t show you where he lives? Are you serious? Read that back. Next time you see him tell him he either gives you his address or you are calling the police

Sounds married or in a LTR at the least. Run.

I think the police suggestion was because he turns up at the ops work when she tried to cut him off twice. Not because he won't tell her where he lives. Anyway I would say 100% in a relationship.

He really does sound like a stalker, probably married.

Agreed. More red flags than a semaphore convention.

Seriously... read your own post. Surely you can see this isn't a relationship, you're just being used? Get some self respect and get rid of him for good.

Next time you see him tell him he either gives you his address or you are calling the police**

Likelihood is when you've spoken to him and he's been home alone his wife/girlfriend was just simply out the house

Do your own bit of stalking turn up at his work and follow him home

Whether he's married, single, attached, who cares, fact is, I'd cut contact with anyone that didn't think I was good enough to go their home, fgs, wise up.

Hoarder? Married? Girlfriend? Just really weird?

Who knows. Either way sounds like you can do better and a bit creepy.

Why is he pushing you for unprotected sex? Does he want a child with you? I hope you've not been stupid enough to be pushed into this.

If this is real you are as much of a weirdo as he is that you even needed to ask this question