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Why just not block me?

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Yourmentalhealthmatters2017 · 26/03/2018 15:39

'Seeing' a guy since December who's MH isn't the best,

Long story short texting 24.7, met several times and spoke about our issues.

Now he's ignoring me.... WTF

His bad day has turned it to a bad few weeks?

What do I do? HELP!?

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 26/03/2018 15:47

Block him and move on. Take control.

ALittleBitConfused1 · 26/03/2018 15:48

I read a thread similar to this yesterday I think.
Maybe he has just realised it isn't for him, that he isn't in the right headspace and wants to end it.
It was be nice if he had explained things but then I guess if he is that poorly he isn't always going to get it right.
Tbh op if you both have MH issues and he is struggling to cope atm it's probably the best thing that he doesn't want to take it further.
I would concerntrate on your own health and getting to a stable place before dating again.

IAmWonkoTheSane · 26/03/2018 15:48

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kubex · 26/03/2018 15:49

If he's not texting back, he obviously doesn't want to talk to you.

He isn't interested - move on!

Adora10 · 26/03/2018 16:26

If someone is ignoring you, as you put it, what is there to do apart from nothing...?

Yourmentalhealthmatters2017 · 26/03/2018 16:38

Maybe I didn't explain it probably
I meaning due to his MH do I try contact him in a week or so to see if he's ok?

OP posts:
Adora10 · 26/03/2018 16:39

No!!! This is a sign of what it would be like, basically, you being ignored, him treating you like crap, all under the veil of his MH issues.

AnyFucker · 26/03/2018 16:40

No

MyBrilliantDisguise · 26/03/2018 16:46

No. You can feel for him and wish him well, but leave him to it now.

ScabbyHorse · 26/03/2018 16:56

I always think, texting 24/7 is a bad idea anyway.... if you've only met up 'several times' since December, you may have got the wrong idea. Not your fault, but move on. Block him, and he in the future see people face to face to get a good idea of what the relationship is about.

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