Hi all,
My (now ex) has only recently broken up with me and it is very much early days so I am replaying everything in my head and “what iffing” everything. We ended amicably (well, he did it – I was happy) but I didn’t see the point in kicking and screaming – I still have a lot of respect for him and care about him deeply. He says I didn’t do anything, that I didn’t change – his feelings for me romantically just disappeared. We are still living together until I figure out what I want to do next (in terms of moving) – what can I do to accept this and move on and stop wondering if I had have been more fun or gone out more or wanted to socialize as much as he did would it all have been okay. I just feel hollow right now and so very lost.