I need some help/advice.
My wife recently met her expartner/first love who she hasn’t seen in over 15 years on the journey home from a business trip. They spent hours together on this journey. My wife told me she met him but kept the details brief I didn’t question her more at the time. Since that point my gut has told me something it not right and that led me to do a bad thing and I checked her phone. I then found out they went for drinks after the journey as she told a friend. I questioned my wife further one night and I never let on that I knew they went for drinks. My wife confirmed this happened but again didn’t give much more information. I let it go for a week or two then I checked her phone again and everything seemed ok until I looking at some pictures and I came across a picture of her expartner in her deleted items. There were no messages or calls to strange numbers I could find. I left it again and then challenged my wife why she had this photo. My wife confirmed he sent her it. My wife then confirmed they do not talk often and basically told me to forget about it. The expartner is married with children also.
I don’t like confrontation and I don’t know if I’m just overthinking things. My wife never told me they went for drinks after the journey she never told me they swapped numbers and she never mentioned they were talking after it.
My wife has obviously deleted these messages as I found none when I checked her phone. I also found a password to an email address I didn’t know she had. My wife has deliberately concealed all this from me.
I don’t know if I’m just being paranoid or is my wife cheating?