Is this abusive?

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Dp of 2 year's.

I've started a new hobby, I've noticed I get questioned a lot before I go, "are there men there?, Will you be talking to many men?" Etc...
So today I finished my hobby and walked out, I was driving home and I got a call from dp, he had a sturn voice, I could sense immediately something wasn't right. "Where are you? Why haven't you text me to let me know your on your way home?" By the way it's been 15 minutes from the session ending. I didn't even get a chance to fart before the questions flew in. He knew what time I was finishing and how long the travelling time was home.

He hung up. I'm driving home with the biggest what felt like weight in my stomach, I didn't want to go into my own house. I didn't want to go home.

I should leave shouldn't I? He used the excuse of "we need to arrange what we are having for tea!" I'm sorry that's bullshit, he's coming across completely jealous and using tea as an excuse. Fucking ruined my whole day!!!

His precarious life situation isn’t your responsibility, put yourself first OP because IME the more you put up with the worse it becomes. My counsellor thinks I had Stockholm syndrome which at first seemed ridiculous but the more I speak about it, to her and others I realise she’s probably right. He eroded every ounce of self confidence I had, I was no longer fierce and strong I’d become a weak woman who genuinely felt that I needed him like oxygen.

It’s freeing letting go. Very difficult at first I won’t skew the truth but it gets easier over time. Speaking to his many ex girlfriends has helped me realise I wasn’t the one that was insane, he was.

I'm sure there are rentals around.
He could rent a room in a shared house.
But that is NOT for you to sort out.