My husband had an affair a year and a half ago now, it was very short as I caught him straight away, I threw him out and we got back together two weeks later, he stayed living with his mom for a year as she thought he would move back in, I tryed many times and each time it ended in a broken promise. His mom threw him out and he went and got a council flat again rather than move back in with me. We get on great, see him on all the days we are both off work, he constantly text me but he goes home at night and never sleeps over, we go out as a family all the time but never as a couple. Iv come to the stage where Iv had enough. How long should I wait for him. When he said he was going out with mates last night I wasn't happy because why can't we go out as a couple, then I said about moving in and he said I don't like living on my own it cost me a lot of money but you will loose your benefits, it's always an excuse. I don't know what to do. I want to be with him but just can't live like this anymore