I am a bit confused about this so any insight would be good .
I used to help at dd school and she had a lovely young teacher, certainly much younger than me and very very fit an sporty which I am not. We always got on really well , not in a flirty way although there were a couple of awkward moments in the past , nothing serious like turning around at the same time when passing each other in corridors that sort of thing. When dd left the school on the last day we have him a thank you present and he gave me a huge hug. It was very emotional but I took it mean that dd had been a good pupil to work with and he had enjoyed the help.
Dd is now at university and needed a reference so I got in touch a whole 2 years later with no contact in between , gave news, asked for news and asked for the reference
He replied very fast saying that he was glad to be remembered and that I got in touch and to be thought of fondly. Then he added the feeling was mutual.
I am not sure of what to make of this. Part of me thinks that I am reading too much into it and part of me is trying to link it with previous moments and wonders if ijust missed something here and I have been distracted.
In any case there is no chance of anything as everything opposes us including dps , dd, age and fitness levels for a start.
Since i have no friends as such in rl to talk to about this (my friends are really more dp s friends ) I am just asking your opinion. Am I over thinking this?
Thank you