Urgh what a bloody mess my relationship is.
I’m a sahm. OH has own business works upwards of 60+ hours a week. This is mon-sat every week. Last year he had 5 days off excluding Sunday’s.
I do everything for the kids and I’ve done w wry bedtime for 6 years.
My eldest is 6 and he’s been to her school twice.
He’s just blown up and went mental because he sAid I’m taking the piss by going to my gym class. I usually go three days but last week I went to 8 classes because there was a taster session on of 3 hours one day. I’d never normally do this.
I’ve tried to get him to have something for himself but he won’t. But I feel like he doesn’t wNt me to do anything either.
I’ve tried suggesting taking more people on at work, he won’t.
I fully intend on going back to work once youngest starts school a year come September but this won’t chnge how much he works. The only thing that will happen is I’ll have to do everything plus work. I know this for a fact because even when I worked full time he worked like this.
There’s loads of other stuff but I don’t even know what I want from writing this down.
I need to go to my class it’s the only time I get Away from the kids.