He never loved me did he?

[Evengalina]

I ended it after 18 months because I discovered not only had he kissed another woman but he had been having an emotional affair with her all along.

He swears that she kissed him and that he pulled away. I asked him why he pulled away and he said it was because he didn’t fancy her.

After pushing for answers, it seems that he has all the right feelings for her except for a physical attraction. Wheras he is physically attracted to me but no romantic feelings.

I hate him. I feel like he strung me along for a year and a half, giving empty promises. All the while, stringing her along too saying that he just needs time. She knows about me and has been hoping that once he “gets over his lust” that he will see that she is the one.

Arsehole.

You forgot the s.

Arseholes.

She knew about you and made an informed decision.

So you didn’t know about his OW? Ouch. What shitheads.

Go no contact if not already.

He has no romantic feelings for you so has just been with you for 18 months for sex and he told you both this?

Fuck me, that's harsh. Takes a special kind of wanker to spell that out to somone.

How did you find out they kissed?

They’ve been friends for years, long before I met him. She has always held a torch for him. Even throughout her marriage which eventually ended.

I found out because she WhatsApp’d him the week after it happened to say she couldn’t stop thinking about it. And I happened to be with him when she did and saw the message

Frankly, she’s welcome to him. They deserve each other

What an arsehole. You are best off leaving them to each other. Way too tricky and painful

Sounds like a right cock.

You’re better of without him in your life.

Yes, he is certainly a special kind of arsehole.

Likes to play women off against each other, has multiple women vying for his attention, all code for a narcissistic twat.

What did I ever see in him 🙄