Hi, just wondering if there is anyone out there with a similar situation and how they dealt with it and what advise they can give me
I was with my ex for only 10 months but conceived within 3 months it was an unplanned pregnancy, when I told him he was nervous but seemed okay with it and said we can do this together and that he wasnt going anywhere, we carried on as normal then things started to change he was avoiding me, texting less often
We then rented our own place together he then went extremely off with me. I decided to confront him as I had enough of him treating me like I didn't exist, he then broke the news that he wasn't sure if he loves me and that feelings had gone and wasn't sure why? He said he'd be there for me and the baby. We broke up, he then moved back in with his parents only lasting a week living together, this all happened when i was 27 weeks pregnant! He mainly ignored me for the remainder of the pregnancy only texting here and there like once every 6 weeks, I decided to have him at the birth and have his name on birth certificate and my baby to have his last name and let him stay for 2 weeks to help me with the baby as I had weeks to adjust us not being together and also thought he was single and only devoting his time to being a dad and supporting me. After all my best efforts to be civil with him he decided to tell me there had been a girl he's been dating all along at his work (he's her manager) and that she knew he was expecting a baby and decided to be with him anyway and i believe she persuaded him to not be with me, So all makes sense why he dumped me! I was very hurt by the betrayal and have been struggling to accept it, I have allowed access for him to see his son once, sometimes twice a week for 6 hrs a time taking him to spend it at his parents, Do you think this is too much time for him to have with a 9 week old baby? I am now on antidepressants and really struggling to be happy knowing that he's happy with his new girlfriend, my main focus is my son and trying to co parent, also don't have support from his parents anymore as his mum decided to block me and ignore me, anyone had a similar experience to me? I'd love to hear your stories and advice