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He’s left me lonely and broken😰

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Betsyx · 15/03/2018 16:32

I’ve been with my bf for 2yrs now. Lately he started being distant & wouldn’t call me or text me at all. He came to see me a week before Valentine’s Day & he had his phone on flight mode. I questioned him, he got angry & left. I didn’t hear from him not even on Valentine’s Day. I was very upset, I saw him 2 weeks & saw a love message he sent to another girl on Valentine’s Day. I confronted him & he said is nothing when am I taking him to see my dad he wants us to get married. I’ve been asking him to propose but he keeps saying is just a ring.

I was very upset cause he’s clearly cheating on me. I found out I’m pregnant, he doesn’t call me, I’m so depressed as I have no money & just started a new job. We were supposed to be planning for a house & wedding & he treats me like this? I want to have an abortion but I’m so upset & scared but I know I can’t have this baby on my own.

He hasn’t spoken to me in weeks, he says he can’t waste his time on me anymore. I always wanted to get married then have kids with a guy who loves me. This guy had hurt me so much

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GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 15/03/2018 16:56

Hi Betsy.

He sounds like a complete arsehole.

You deserve so much better than this! I know it may not feel like it at the moment but you are much better off without him. Especially before marriage and committing to buying a house! He would be cheating on you all the time.

How far along with the pregnancy are you? And how old are you?

Would also suggest getting tested for STIs... not sure what advice to offer about getting an abortion, can anyone suggest a good organisation for Betsy to talk to?

You really, really do deserve sometime who treats you much better than this. Flowers

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 15/03/2018 16:57

PS: Is there anyone in real life you can speak to about this?

NotTheFordType · 15/03/2018 16:58

I'm sorry you're feeling so sad OP Flowers

This man is an arse and you're better off without him. You will never find Mr Right when you're in a relationship with Mr Wrong!

Do you have some supportive people around you that you can talk through your feelings about ending the pregnancy? Have you spoken to anyone about that yet?

MarieG10 · 15/03/2018 16:59

Yes you really need support from someone close....and definitely not him. Please don't stay with him when he tries coming crawling back pleading he made a mistake as he will just do again

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