Met a guy last year OLD was separated from his wife (6 months) but still at that stage at the marital home. We instantly clicked and started seeing each other when he could get out (Has 2 dds) 3 months later he finally moved out to his other house (owns a few properties) with much help getting everything needed from yours truly, and all the emotional support and listening to hours of constant moaning about how awful he's having it at home the entire time (obviously) yet bending over backwards to keep the wife happy and me getting an evening a week if I'm lucky!
Moves into his house.. great more time haha his childcare arrangements with ex are 50/50 and they know nothing of me absolutely fine by me atm... but when not seeing them we still only see each other once a week maybe twice. This caused me to have issues, and was starting to doubt the relationship.
Raised the concerns he agreed to why I felt way I did and didn't want me to end things.. great happy days as we got on so well in every aspect of the relationship.
I've thrown a great big spanner in the works for us both I had a brain haemorrhage which wasn't huge but affected my emotional state for a short time he couldn't cope with that, and then I'm 5 weeks pregnant last thing I want or need. Def not planned I'm in mid 40s and a grandmother he's mid 50s yes you'd think tubal ligation is safest you can be, it's not.
We've split up and things are very difficult he's dating already which proves I meant nothing, although he suggested being FWB as Sex life was best he had apparently... off was my reply to that!! im just lost and don't know which way to turn. Any advice would be great