Sex

[BookAngel]

Can we talk about sex on here? New and can't join the sex group yet.

If his first name starts with an S, he could be my last ex. :-/

Apart from he was a terrible swimmer so he’d never be able to catch up with me to manhandle me in pool!

Dj the trip is a month away yet so plenty of time to back out

I think I've been put off men for a very long time

Unless you want to spend a long weekend fending off his gropes and then dealing with the resulting tantrum, you need to cancel the trip now.

He sounds like an utter arse.

sounds like my ex too OP. the sexualising of normal interaction or affection made my flesh crawl. groping my breasts when I was trying to wash up at the sink (why wasnt HE doing the washing up but that's another thing!). on other occasions I lean in for a quick peck on the cheek and he turns and it's all snog and tongue in my face. just get off me!!!! yuck.
It was a way of controlling me, definitely. one of many ways actually.

You are well rid OP. and don't go on the trip!!

Good on you for ditching him. Avoid.

Bendy, yeah what is it with the tongues?!?! He'd have his stuck out in bed like he had no control over it. Was horrible. Definitely not going back there.

Er why are you still with this guy? The sex sounds awful and the sulking is ridiculous so what DO you get out of this relationship?

Karigan, if you'd have read my post properly I very clearly said my ex boyfriend.

Is he circumcised?

Mojito, no he isn't but he was very sensitive to stimulation which is why I was so baffled by the inability to orgasm through intercourse. I got to thinking my fanny was like the channel tunnel but have been reassured by a previous FWB (who usually came more or less simultaneously) that I haven't so that's good as was seriously worried. This guy was quite small though compared to all the hung like horses guys I've had 😂 Sorry, painkillers gone to my head!

Not going on the trip and have blocked and deleted him from my phone and Facebook/messenger. I've thought about things a great deal and it was just wrong on so many levels.

Good on you, OP

OP one thing I meant to say when I posted originally was that it's concerning you felt obliged to keep going in whatever position when you were sore. This really shouldn't ever happen. "We need to stop or change position. My vagina/hips/back are in pain" should be all it takes.

Also to answer your comment about small cocks and being obese, yes IME there's a strong correlation. My working theory is that the small cock comes first and leads to a lot of body shame, so the guy hates on his body and sees no value in it, and therefore doesn't take care of it.

He would say it was fine to stop but I knew he'd be pissed off.
Yes, he was very conscious of his small dick and when they are obese there's usually a large pad of fat over the pubic bone which makes it even smaller. The issue here was girth though. Never forget the first time and thinking OMG that's so thin!

Well done on getting rid OP. The whole thing sounds like a complete chore. He's a selfish and abusive sod.

Blanche he was really hard work in generally. "Chore" describes him perfectly at the end.