I’ve been with my partner(both women) for a year and a half. Sex was good in the beginning then went a bit stale, which I found out was because her ex had been in touch, that was still early in the relationship though.
All went back to normal until we split up before Xmas when she said she didn’t fancy me anymore, we got back together after Xmas, she said she never meant what she said she just wanted to hurt me and she’s sorry about that, it’s just something she does when she feel someone is going to hurt her.
Anyway things then got better, everything was fine. Sexwise recently she’s more than happy to touch me and do things to me etc whenever I want, only once in the last month has she wanted me to touch her. Over the weekend I tried and she just wasn’t responding and this is too much information but wasn’t getting wet(not usual for her) and stopped me, this also has happened a few times over the last month.
So yesterday I asked her if she fancied me or not as it didn’t always feel like it. She didn’t answer and went to bed. Today she asked me what was the matter, I said you didn’t answer my question yesterday. She got annoyed and told me I was being silly and that if she didn’t want to be here she wouldn’t and she wouldnt spend all her spare time here if she didn’t want to and that she loves me... now that I don’t doubt, nor was it my question. I left it there, but am I right to think that her answer was in fact a bit what I was asking? I don’t know what to think. What would you think?
Also I can’t remeber a single time where she’s wanted me and asked me for sex or anything. It sometimes feels like she’s just doing it because she knows I want to. She’s not very expressive anyway, I’ve never seen her upset or anything.
The amount of times she’s stopped me etc I feel uncomfortable now even trying.