Handhold needed. Was I right to block and delete?

[WishfulThinking18]

Just ended an 18 month relationship as it wasn’t going anywhere.

He couldn’t commit to anything more than regular sex. So we were, really, more like FWB.

Before we started sleeping together we had been good friends. But, surprise surprise, as soon as we started having sex, he treated me the worst he’s ever done in our entire 20 year friendship.

So after yet another argument over him not giving a damn about my well being (this time it was over a recent health scare I’ve had, when he didn’t even bother to ask how it went at hospital) I decided the friendship was over.

I sent him a courtesy text letting him know that I was unhappy with his treatment of me and our friendship (the third time I have raised it in the last six months) and that I wished him well but wanted to cease contact. Then I blocked and deleted his number.

Was that too harsh? Should I have waited for him to respond?

Insulting twat!! I think the being pursued for ages lures you (and me) into a false sense of security that this guy actually really likes me and this could be the start of a great relationship...... errrrr wrong!!

Onwards and upwards eh 👍

I still don’t really understand it because actually we are super compatible physically. He has said many times that we are scarily compatible sexually. And I think so too.

So I guess it must be my personality he’s decided he doesn’t want to commit to! 😂

Being scarily sexually compatible counts for nothing unless your personalities and characters gel too, it's just not enough to take it any further.