Confused!

[Sam524]

Hi!
i need some advice. So last year my partner gave his number out to a girl at a club, apparently paid for a taxi and was ringing and texting her lots. He said nothing happened so i told him not to speak to her and we moved on.
So now everyhing was good, we have a 6 week old baby girl but have found out that he is still messaging her a year later! Im not sure what to do or if im overreacting by getting so mad and upset?
Thanks in advance!

I think it's really weird that he is communicating so much with another girl and keeping it secret from you/hushing it down.

If it was truly just a friendship then he would be open about it with you as would have nothing to hide.

I'm not sure what's the best thing to do about it tho. Maybe look through the texts etc and see what they are like . Maybe get him, you and the girl to all hang out and see how he reacts. Maybe see what other people on here suggest

Well it doesn't look good does it. Have you seen the messages? What is the content of them?

Secrets and lies. There's nothing worse. I lived with this kind of behaviour for many years and it is soul destroying.

I only read a couple because the rest bad been deleted but they were okay just talking. I just think its a bit weird and he is acting really guilty so not sure what to make of it

You told him not to speak to her (aka shag)
He continued speaking to her (aka shag) but hiding it better

Sorry :(

There’s a reason the other texts are deleted.

Also, nobody gives their number out to someone they’ve just met in a club to be “friends”

Let’s be honest here. He’s a liar at the very least, and given half a chance he’d be a cheat

You deserve much better