Just before Christmas I matched with a guy on Tinder and we really got on and eventually swapped numbers. It turns out he wasn't from my area but was there that day for a job interview, he was lucky to be offered the job and started his role at the beginning of February.
All that time we had been in contact and were looking forward to meeting when he got here. However its a month later and we are yet to meet. The first time we arranged to meet he said he had to go back to his family home for an emergency - benefit of the doubt given.
We arranged to meet last week and he said he slipped on some ice, fell on a curb and fractured his coccyx, so had to cancel our meet up.
I can't work this guy out. Have we just been unfortunate or is he just not that interested? When we are in contact he is really flirty and says all the right things. Then there are times when I hear nothing from him for days and then he will contact me when I'm not expecting it. He even called me when he was drunk before.
In our last message after his 'accident' he said he feels like we are destined not to meet. I don't know if that was a sign and he was trying to letting me down gently.
I really can't work him out. My friends have advised me to play it cool, but it's driving me crazy. I haven't met him yet but I already like him a lot and really want it to work out
Any advice ?