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Advice please

6 replies

Lebranic · 06/03/2018 19:15

Complicated! I have a child with my ex who is at senior school, and a younger child at infant school, with my dh.
A lady at the school is a hairdresser who I get on OK with, she is quite friendly with everyone.
My ex has a new girlfriend who has children also at the infant school but not in my son's class.
When the hairdresser was cutting my hair I think I may have asked if she know the new girlfriend and what she is like, if she is friendly with the hairdresser as she is not friendly with me. That is definitely all I said.
So the hairdresser went and told her and my ex is so so annoyed with me, being really abusive on the phone.
So I contacted the hairdresser to ask what she had told her as I really didn't think I had said anything bad. The hairdresser has just messaged me back saying she doesn't want to get involved!
Any advice? as I have to see these people every day
Thank you

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category12 · 06/03/2018 19:38

Um, change your hairdresser. And avoid gossiping about the girlfriend with people you don't know you can trust.

As for the ex, he sounds like you're well rid.

Lebranic · 06/03/2018 20:43

Good advice. None of my friends were blunt enough to give it to me. Thank you

Definitely new hairdresser, shame as she is good at the hairdressing just not the hairdresser code of ethics 😂

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Lebranic · 06/03/2018 20:50

Also feel bad for my son as he will have to listen to it tonight as he is over there and his dad is very aggrieved.
So glad to get away from that but my son can't.

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ThisLittleKitty · 08/03/2018 14:11

I can see why he is annoyed tbh if he heard your digging for info on his new gf. Next time don't. Would you like it if he done it about a man you was dating? I doubt.

hellsbellsmelons · 08/03/2018 16:23

I would just respond and say, you just asked if she was friendly with HD and if that upsets him then there's nothing much you can do about it.

Don't apologise.

janaus · 09/03/2018 03:07

Why are hairdressers such gossips and trouble makers.

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