Should I meet up with him

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Recently started dating again and I’ve been chatting to someone I went to school with, he’s saying how he’s desperate to meet up etc and how about we go for a drink and suggested tomorrow.

I said I’m free Saturday and suggested a place in town to meet up.

He’s now saying he’s more into pub like places, I said okay we’ll decide where sometime this week then, now he’s saying he’s “conscious of seeing people he knows and them interrupting our conversation” .

We’ve been speaking for about 3 weeks and when we first started texting he said how the perfect date was watching movies

I haven’t met anyone new in years. What do you all think?

I agree, he's probably got a family at home and doesn't want to rock that boat. I would suggest a pub, on the weekend which would be harder if he has got a family. How did you reconnect?

Yep he has a wife or GF and I wouldn’t waste my time honestly

Aaah, I'm a naive sort so, although odd, I probably would meet up once and give him a chance to show me he's not married/strange/murdery.

As I said, naive, but I'd think perhaps he's a quiet, antisocial sort (not off-putting for me) before I'd think married but then I am frequently wrong and dreadful judge of character so...

I'd give it a go...in a well-lit, fairly heavily populated area.

Suggest you will pop over to his (I mean don't actually go) but flush him out that way perhaps.

I wouldn't even bother OP

Been in this situation so many times, just wants a shag

You're better than that OP, delete

And gives all the talk but when it comes down to it...

A cuppa at yours isn't a first date. Fuck that if he doesn't want to go out for a drink with you

Defiantly not married, couldn’t say if he was 100% not seeing anyone.

I’m not going to bother I don’t think as pp said already stressful and I haven’t even met him yet