Some of you have seen my other threads. It's taken me a long time to accept and realise how awful my marriage is. I have decided to ltb. He's buying me presents everyday and being his best, but this is exactly how he has been, eventually gets nasty, mean to me and dcs.
Because he's made me feel so unsure of my self I want to ask you ladies what you think of his view. He says the past (our relationship) was not that bad as I am making it, he's called me by the c word many a time. He said:
"Its your past, your childhood, which is very bad not us two, it's the cause of all our problems"
"Most men would run from you, I didn't, it won't help you to run"
Just to put into perspective, my past is that my family died in accident when I was a kid, yes it was understandably traumatic. Since then I've have had lot of success in life, been to university twice, have a successful career, lots of friends (he has none, unsociable), never had any mental health issues until this year felling depressed.
So to me it seems like he's trying to manipulate me again.
What you think?
Thank you