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Rosiesmumoo · 27/02/2018 22:23

Met my hubby who I adore an incident that happened 18mths ago somebody hit on our property in error I was left with ptsd and moved away it was hard I'm 46 just found out I'm pregnant have two grown up sons and a daughter who is 12 I found an email for a spy cam I asked my husband he went berserk and said I was paranoid he let the police take me away for mental health assets and was told I'm normal I've found msg embedded on furnishing he's initals**male49yrs asked him he's said I'm a nutter he drives me everywhere had my phone on multi all I had a row and cozy I shouted he said the neighbours know I'm domestically abusing him

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Rosiesmumoo · 27/02/2018 22:25

Ci belilieve he's making me shout to say I'm abusing him he's told neighbours not to speak to me as I'm mad then i asked him he's denied it he won't have neighbors near the door

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Rosiesmumoo · 27/02/2018 22:28

Fzmy dad thinks it's him I've photographed these mugs everyone else sees them but he says there nothing there I'm paranoid he makes weird hand gestures and screams why am I watching him my loves dying fast for this man

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SandyY2K · 27/02/2018 22:28

I'm not totally following your post
..but it sounds like he's trying to make you lose your mind. Can you separate from him to get some space.

What does this mean?

I've found msg embedded on furnishing he's initalsmale49yrs

he let the police take me away

Did he call the police?

You need some help. Do your sons know what's happening?

SandyY2K · 27/02/2018 22:36

You really need to get away from him...or play it a different way.

Focus on your DD and spend time with her. Limit the time you spend with him .... and don't rise to his comments. Don't shout or respond to him.

Have friends and family over to visit... make notes of his actions in a secure place...like your phone and password protect it.

Even if your phone isn't password protected...You can put it in an app called 'colour notes' and put a password on it.

Try and get out of the house. Go to the gym... See family if you can...even go to the library to reduce the time you spend with him.

Discuss your husbands actions with your GP as a matter of urgency...he clearly has a plan for you and it's not looking good.

bittern79 · 27/02/2018 22:39

What?? Paragraphs and full stops would be good.

Not being snarky - I just can’t understand your post, and it sounds as though you need help.

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