ExP is a controlling and manipulative twat, dressed up as a caring loving father and hard done by partner.
His latest stunt is saying that the only way our son (4) will be happy again is if we are a family again. DS is currently unhappy at his nursery (he cries and cries the night before and in the morning) and doesn't like to be apart from me. He spends on average 2 days a week with his dad and one or 2 days at nursery if I'm working.
ExP has sent me this message after going to check on him today
"reassure yourself that this will all be ok in time and risk damaging the kids further. I can’t reassure myself but will do my best to make sure he is the beautiful kid he deserves to be.."
On Friday he showed my DD from a previous relationship, who can't stand him because of how he's treated us in the past, a picture of a pony and said look, I want to buy you this pony but your mum won't let me.
Any advice in handling him? It's exhausting, but also hurtful that he's basically saying our kids (we have 1.5 yo DD as well) will be messed up like my eldest (12 yo, has ASD and her DF isn't interested), and it's all down to me.