Just want a rant

[Pickledonion24]

Living at my family home with my partner I’ve lived here 23 years. He moved in 1.5 years ago. Where both very successful and have saved just under 200k deposit. Won’t go far down south where I live. I used to have lots of space for myself think walk in wardrobe racks of shoes and hand bags. Since he’s moved in to my bedroom space has been an issue I’ve had to make room for him which I was more than happy to do. I’ve now got excess stuff with no where for it to go the room looks cluttered. Think shoe boxes piled up storage draws with all my buisness paper work one laundry basket all looks cluttered and cramped. He hates clutter slightly ocd. he has to line his after shave up every day shoes have to be in order and linded up to. All the clutter drives him mental I’ve had huge clear outs of cloths got rid of anything I didn’t wear but I’ve also put on weight due to a condition so have had to buy new clothes and keep the others as after the surgery I’ve had I will go back to my normal weight when I’m at the gym again. He comes home and nags about everything moaned this morning about the coat rack having to many coats On he couldn’t close the door he could he just wants two coats looking perfect on the rack. In my dream world I would have all my clothes and shoes back in my wardrobe all perfect but I know he needs some space to. He thinks moving house I will be the same. I’ve told him we will have a living room office kitchen 3 bedrooms utility garage garden dining room for all of our stuff. I’ve told him this a million times. He works in a really high power stress full job and has long days so I can see why it’s annoying for him but he suggested living at my parents and saving up we could easily afford to rent and save at the same time. We’ve only got six months to move out of my parents before they move to there new house. Im getting really stressed out by all the nagging he thinks I shouldn’t have so many shoes or clothes. I’ve worked hard to get where I am if I want over 29 pairs of heels I’m having them pluss to sell them I would make a loss anyway. I feel like the clutter isn’t an issue and it’s all his stress from work taken out on me ahhh feels so much better to get it all out

I’m not sure if you’re serious? It sounds like you want different things and have different priorities

Ltb.

I think you need to do a boot sale and get rid of all those cloths

Two grown adults living in one room can get a bit stressful, especially after 18 months. If you've got £200k deposit can't you buy somewhere now?

God you've posted some stealth boasts on here lately

Sounds like both of you are more suited to living alone.

If this is a real post - get him out of your space then. Or be prepared to be dictated to for the rest of your life. Good luck if you can stand being regimented.

If you live together then need to accept it’s 50/50 and his space can be uncluttered and doesn’t need to be full. Doesn’t sound like you’re prepared to do that and are a bit of a princess.

You don’t sound well suited.

You sound like hard work tbh.

You truly don't sound particularly well suited I'm afraid.

Blimey

Are you actually grateful for anything in your life op? Every post I've seen of yours is moaning and complaining. No doubt when you've got your £350 grand mansion you're after you'll find something else to moan about. And I also agree with pp about every thread being a stealth boast.

Errr buy a house then