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Carry on or call it day?

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Suzidean · 24/02/2018 18:24

I think I already know the answer but just need to see it written down. I have been with DH for 16 years like all relationships its had its ups and downs. These last few months have been mainly downs and I don't know whether I want to work things out or call it a day. He wants to work through and carry on. And thinks I am just depressed because of the weather.
We have no children and our house is in joint names. I am lucky in the fact I could have access to my cousins rental property if I go but that means the tenants been evictied. There is no else but I just don't feel anything for him. Silly as it sounds I actually think it would be easier if there was.
I just want to know that I can leave for falling out of love. And to give myself permission to do so.

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1959free · 24/02/2018 19:04

Been married 34 years in April. Last ten my wife has been so controlling over me. Came to a head before New year. She filing for a divorce living in separate bedrooms now. Don't speak to each other. I need to move on. Property is mortgage free. Will probably have to move miles from my grown up kids and grand kids but piece of mind is more important and my happiness and that is what should make your mind up for you. God luck

EffingJeffer · 24/02/2018 19:09

"just don't feel anything for him."
"I just want to know that I can leave for falling out of love"

Of course you can leave if you no longer love him. Its the kindest thing to do. Give both you and he the chance to start again. If there's no love what's the point? A life of misery for you both?

1959free · 24/02/2018 19:26

Totally agree rather be alone and happy

Grunkle · 24/02/2018 20:12

Absolutely you can leave for any reason you want. You don't need permission. You have one precious life. Just one!

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