i married my husband 3 months ago and i gave birth to a beautiful boy 16 days after i married my husband. i had to wait 6 weeks to heal up the stiches but we still had sex around the second week of my recovery. He moved to Hawaii due to his job. i was in texas staying with his parent which is my inlaws. i trusted him during our long distance relationship. there were ups and downs during our long distance relationship. everytime we have a bad or huge argument he would block me for the whole day and night. so Lord knows what the hell is he doing. when i moved back with my son in hawaii to be with my husband, he's totally different. the good side of him are still there. he cares (sometimes) , he provide and buy me stuff. but the bad side is really horrible. he doesnt want to shower with me anymore. he would called me hippo, telling me that my stretch marks is a huge turn off, im fat, everything is ugly. he would laugh when i take off my clothes. he would push me to work out but i got no time to work out cause i clean the house, cook for him, look after my 3 months old son. he eats and make a mess and he would tell me that he is the man of the house and i have to obey and listen. i dont know what to do?! every time im always the one that gets horny and would ask him to fuck me. he never gets horny. he would tell me i aint sucking that tits, or no i dont want to fuck you. he would tell me that he's tired and he wants to go to bed or playing games with his friends. i really need help. its like the only reason why he want to be with me is because he wants to see his son and im just there to change his diaper and look after our son when he goes to work. :(