Is he just looking for something casual?

[Peachyfizz]

Been speaking to a guy almost 2 weeks on an OLD app. I actually know of him though as we work for the same company. We are in different departments and different floors. I've only seen his 2/3 times since working there for 3 years.

Anyway we have been talking, all seems ok he said we should go for a drink. I agreed. A week has past and he hasn't arranged a day. Now he's saying about drinking tequila so I'm getting the impression he wants to get drunk. Where as I wanted 1 drink and get to know him.
Also we are still messaging on the app, I would have thought he would have asked for my number by now. I don't know ive had so many arseholes! I just feel like this one will be the same!!

If you don't have a time and date to meet then you don't have a date

Liking a tequila doesn't definitely mean he's going to mess you about. If you get a date then meet him and see.

Ask him & clarify.

OP - why are you sitting around expecting and guessing?
Why is it up to him to propose the time & place; or to move to WhatsApp or smth???
And - how can anyone know what he may or may not want with you?
How do you know that you ant more than casual with him??

21century. You don’t need to wait for the man make moves and pick you.

i know but it just seems like he just wants to go get drunk etc. What the story is, is we were talking about what board games we like and i said i used to like battleships when i was younger. So he said we should play over a spreadsheet for fun and the loser buys a round of drinks. Sounds a bit geeky i know but thought it was a bit different. Anyway he lost so he has to buy the round. But as of yet no day has been set. I don't know why he hasnt arranged anything?

Surely if he was just looking for sex he would be trying to meet up at the soonest possibility?

Maybe? I think im just being silly. Just dont want to be taken for a mug yet again