My husband has done nothing wrong but I don't think I love him anymore. He's a great dad, worships me, looks after us well but we have no spark. I've tried to recreate with date nights but we could easily sit in silence, we used to laugh loads and could chat for hours, lucky if e can chat for 5 mins now. Little things he does annoy me so much and I've totally gone off him sexually. The thought of sex with him makes me feel a little queasy and I flinch even if he touches my shoulder in passing. We've not had sex for nearly 4 years. We go on family days out etc and our boys have fun but sure they pick up on my tension. Things are so much easier and boys are so much calmer when he's not around. When he goes away for work I look forward to it and life is so much easier and stress free when he's not here. I don't know what's happened to make me fall out of love with him, I do want to again as don't want to go on like this. I don't want to split up as I wonder if I might love him again since day, but I feel I should let him have a chance at proper happiness with someone better than me. He says he's happy with me and life as it is and doesn't t think there is any problems. Anyone been in similar situation, can I make my love for him come back or is it pointless?