Boyfriend broke up with me for no reason

[beckymad1x]

So yeah, as the title said.

Obviously wasn't a perfect relationship but not even an explanation?!

Just need a hand hold

Of course you deserve an answer but that doesn’t mean you’re going to get one.

It’s still very raw but I think as time goes by you’re going to realise that your bf can be a very convincing liar. Prepare yourself for the slow drip of a story that you weren’t earlier privy to.

He was obviously lying last night.

I've ended relationships before because I didn't see a future for us for a range of reasons.

I didn't tell them that...because in some cases they felt there was a future.

Yep sorry I agree someone else.
We said what he needed to last night to get one last shag.

He is fuckin' heartless though.
What a horrible thing to do.
Please block, ignore, delete.

This will mess with you and unsurprisingly.
Get lots of TLC from your family and friends to get you through this.

I'm so sorry this has happened.

Sometimes relationships just run their course. I ended it twice with my bf of three years once when I went to university for a month but then he made me feel guilty so I got back with him. I wish I hadn’t because it was even worse to break it off the second time when he begged me not to. I had simply outgrew him and was in a different stage of my life.

You have to accept it and move on , if you are constantly texting him and calling him then stop this immediately! This just makes you look desperate and you will regret doing this in a few months I suspect. You need to erase him from your thoughts , if you try to understand a person's behaviour you will end up driving yourself insane , accept that you will never know & start putting a plan of action into place of how to get through the healing process. Try to handle this with as much decorum and class as you can muster , you can do it xxx

I was with my ex for 12 years and never got a satisfactory explanation beyond the 'its not you but me' statement.
My advice would be to not speculate but accept the problem is with him and try to move on. I know it's hard and it's nice to have an answer but focus on yourself for a bit.

If I told my ex boyfriends the truth about why I split up with them it would not have always been kind. Sometimes no reason is the kindest. I ended things recently because I decided that the guy I was dating had shit hair and I couldn't bear to be seen with him. The truth would be mean.

No reason probably just means his decision is final, he isn't opening a negotiation with you.

I've broken up with someone without giving a reason. The actual reason was that he was nice enough but I didn't see a future with him. He thought he was hard done by for not getting more of a reason than that. He was nice. There was no huge flaw to highlight, any "reasons" would have been picky nonsense.

I bet that last night he was wrestling with his conscience over his decision to end it. There he was all comfy at night, maybe horny too, and he thought he could stay with you after all and said all that stuff in trying to convince himself not you. In the morning he realised he'd been daft and properly ended it. Sorry

I think its the shock of the manner of breakup..you say he asked you to leave?
That makes it sound brutal.

I think trying to end a relationship kindly is best, gor everyone.Did you try to challenge his decision?

My ex of four years broke up with me by tx no reason why then i found out was pregnant with his baby its been really hard but it does get easier im sorry that he has done that to you x