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What to do about Friend and her BF?

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crazycatgal · 17/02/2018 19:57

My friend is in a LTR of 2 years and doesn't live with her boyfriend, this is also her first real relationship.

Some things she's told me about his behaviour don't really sound right to me. He's been pissed off at her when she's cut her hair short because he says he 'prefers it longer' and is moody and won't speak to her the couple of times she's had it short.

Today he had forgotten that my friend was meeting me for breakfast and turned up at her house unannounced, when he rang and asked where she was she then explained that she was with me. He then proceeded to sigh very dramatically and talk to her like shit down the phone until he hung up on her.

She's also told me of other times where he has become very moody and won't speak to her when she has plans and can't see him and does stuff that he doesn't like.

Should I say anything to my friend or let her work things out for herself? I don't want her to feel like being treated like this is normal but I don't want to interfere if it's not needed.

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maceymoo20 · 17/02/2018 20:02

You just need to give her advice as her friend.
I wouldn't say it's interfering, I would call it, looking out for her and her best interests.
If it's her first real relationship she might not know what it's like to be treated right.
He doesn't sound like he treats her right at all and comes across like a bit of a control freak.

Just advise her and be there for her the best you can 😊

Cricrichan · 18/02/2018 00:41

He's controlling

crazycatgal · 18/02/2018 09:36

He seems controlling to me but I don't know when and how to bring it up.

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