My dp and I had a row 2 nights ago and I do believe it was my fault. I went into rant mode and brought up everything that had been playing on my mind recently. Most of the things I said were valid but my delivery was dreadful and I was like a woman possessed.
Yesterday morning when we got up I said I was sorry, to which he asked 'what for?' (hate the way he does this, but anyway) to which I replied 'for being a bitch last night'. I said sorry several times and he dropped me off to work as normal. He was a little bit quiet still but otherwise seemed fine.
I messaged him to thank him for the lift and said sorry again and that I loved him. He said it was ok and that he loved me too. We messaged a couple of times during the day and everything appeared normal. Fast forward to when I was getting the train home. I messaged him to let him know I was on my way, he offered me a lift and I thanked him but said I would prefer to walk. He replied that he was coming to get me anyway.
Fast forward to when I got into the car. I immediately sensed something was up. He hardly said 2 words and was really sarcastic in what he did say. When we got home, this behaviour went on for about half an hour until I eventually asked what was up and if he'd been like this all day. I might add that I remained calm and was asking in a reasonable way. He replied he had been like this all day, that it was because of me and that he was still 'fucking furious' with me. I said I would go out for a bit and he said he didn't care anymore what I did.
So I went out and sat in the car for an hour as I had nowhere else to go. When I got in he had done the dishes and was making dinner for us (not usual for him). He was talking normally again and we watched a film. I did notice though that he withdrew physically from me. For example, he kept putting his hand on my leg and then immediately taking it away as if he forgot for a brief second that he was still angry with me. Last night in bed he wore clothes when he normally sleeps naked. He switched during the night from hugging me for a bit to rolling over and turning away from me. He was almost pushing me away from him at some points. This morning it's back to the huffing and almost silent treatment.
I get that I did wrong but surely this isn't on? Does anybody know why he is behaving like this? I've said sorry several times now and it's ending up where I'm clinging on to him and coming across as desperate.