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Am i being paranoid

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Kisha86 · 17/02/2018 08:05

So how to begin... I'm 21+6 days pregnant and me and the father of the child ain't to together. He wants to be hands on dad, which I'm very happy about. and I have 4 other children that's not his which he is willing to also look after and happy that I introduce my kids to him. Which I'm greatful for. But he also wants to meet my mother and meet his family. Which is a bit confusing situation for my pregnant anxiety brain to handle. He wanted to stay single but he also wants family's to be introduced as I asked him. So i just need advice or someone opinion on this subject on how to handle this. Thank you.

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AjasLipstick · 17/02/2018 08:37

What's odd here is that he wants to look after your children who aren't his. Nothing else is odd....his wanting to meet your family and you to meet his is good.

After all, he wants to know his child's grandparents and for you to know his parents as they will also be his child's grandparents.

You say you are not together...are you still sleeping with him?

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Kisha86 · 17/02/2018 10:10

No I'm not. He is also saying that he will always be there for me and my children and I won't want for nothing.

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thethoughtfox · 17/02/2018 11:28

I'm sorry but I wouldn't believe this. Would you want to pay for 4 children that were not yours and you wouldn't be living with and raising? That doesn't make any sense.

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Kisha86 · 17/02/2018 11:57

I find it make sense unless he wanted something more he can gain.

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AjasLipstick · 17/02/2018 12:15

How long have you known this man?

ThisLittleKitty · 17/02/2018 12:40

This all sounds abit odd. How long were you together? You've never met each others family. Has he even met your kids as you say you are happy to introduce them to him?? How can he want to be a dad to kids he has never met and your not even together?

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Kisha86 · 20/02/2018 10:37

Sorry just got everyone message I've none him for nearly half a year

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