Hope I don't sound harsh but this is really getting me down. Dinner date last night and as always, DP more engrossed in his meal than having any form of conversation whilst we ate.
When I put my knife and fork down, he asked if I'd finished (I had) and he stopped eating his own meal to lean over and finish mine before then continuing his own. The amount of stodge that he ate including carb heavy sides was pretty enormous. He polished everything off very quickly.
Sane happened with dessert, I left some, he leaned over to finish mine before fi having his own. Trying to have a conversation whilst we ate was impossible. Completely engrossed in shovelling his food down quickly enough.
As always, he gets home complaining he's fat too full, as always there is no sex after a date as he's too full, try to cuddle him... "don't touch my stomach."
He's over weight and getting larger, I'm becoming increasingly unattracted to him because of his relationship with food. At home, if I make a simple meal with rice,he'll complain it was boring because there's no carby side with it like garlic bread. Sometimes he will make something stodgy to go with it to fill him up. But if course, if he has bread, the kids want bread. It's setting a bad example to them and I'm becoming increasingly unattracted to him because of what I see as a bad relationship with food, which he seems to prioritise over conversation, sex, being and looking healthy. Hope this doesn't sound harsh. Any advice?