I'll try keep it as short as I can. My partner suffers with anxiety and anger issues. He was forced to go through therapy as a kid and it backfired and he had a bad experience of it. I was forced to go too and didn't like it. I think I'm suffering with depression/ bipolar as it runs in the family and I've been to the doctor about it. I'm going to go to therapy to help myself and my family. My partner still has anger problems and I've told him he needs to go to talk to someone about it. He wont go though. I told him I've given him time to try sort his anger out and he hasn't and that if he doesn't go get help I can't do it anymore. He says I'm forcing him to go but i dont think I am I'm just genuinely telling him how I feel. Opinions would be great?
Also I dont feel he has any motivation or drive in life and its starting to get to me. I want a future but he isnt working towards that. I've spoken to him about it and he said he will work on it and that i need to let him show me he can have that motivation and drive. Is that possible?