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MushroomSoup · 15/02/2018 21:00

I’m asking this for a mate - honestly! I’ve been married for yonks and have no idea about Tinder.

Mate is seeing a guy and although it’s early days they are supposed to be exclusive.

He was showing her photos on his phone where a Tinder notification popped up. She wasn’t able to see exactly what it said.

He told her that he knew she’d seen the notification but he wanted to reassure her that he wasn’t active on Tinder anymore.

Is he bullshitting?

OP posts:
Coconutspongexo · 15/02/2018 21:01

Well he could just delete the app if he wasn’t active...

Angelf1sh · 15/02/2018 21:09

You’d still get notifications if someone sent you a message, even if you haven’t written to them, or if you’d matched with someone you’d swiped right in ages ago. What I would say is it makes your profile dormant if you don’t interact with it for two or three weeks. If he’s still getting notifications, I’d say he’s opened the app at least once this month. Without reading the notification she can’t really tell more than that.

Lovemusic33 · 15/02/2018 21:15

He’s lying. When you come off tinder you delete the app there for no notifications.

MushroomSoup · 15/02/2018 22:10

I agree that if he’s not active on Tinder he should delete it.

It sounds like, if he’s still getting notifications, he’s still checking it. Sad

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userxx · 15/02/2018 22:21

Yep, I've always deleted the app when I can't be arsed with it then reinstalled when I'm ready to swipe.

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