I feel like I’m in a downward spiral. I love my OH but I don’t like him very much at the moment. I work full time in a fairly stressful job, I’m in my final year of a degree and we have a 7yo DS. I’m struggling to juggle everything (I have health issues too) and OH keeps promising to do more to help but it isn’t happening, the housework is piling up, there’s a huge list of DIY and decorating to do and I feel like I’m drowning. We rarely go out or have sex and it just feels like he’s given up on everything. I’ve talked to him, shouted, cried and it just doesn’t make a difference, he just keeps making empty promises about changing and we go round in circles. I just don’t know what to do.