Iv been single for 7 years I'm 30 an have 2 dds Iv never been good at relationships my choice in men is terrible dds father was abusive an violent An it put me off relationship for ever but recently a man I no through mutual friends has told me he has feelings An would like to get to no me better i was shocked because he's a true gentleman an im very insecure so I originally thought why me ??? over the last 2 weeks we have exchanged hundreds of txts a few phone calls an even meet for coffee An I can honestly say Iv not meet a man like him before so at the moment things are goin brilliantly he understands how nervous I am about a new relationship but he doesn't mind waitin he says there's no rush he's not goin any where so any help or advice to let my guard down would be brilliant I'm so worried I'm goin to ruin it in some way! Thanks for readin