Hi I am new to this site and hope I can get some answers to my issue.
I have been with my partner for 9yrs.he has been very ill and got through that. Then it starts.. He moans about my sons... What they do..they are adults by the way, he will not say it but I know he is not keen on them at all. Then the Christmas before, on the big day, he started saying he wanted to hit then, called them horrible names... Which I will never forget or forgive him for. Moving on its his birthday and I called him a bloody idiot... Then it went down hill... He plays mind games and tries to make me the bad one.... He twists things... I have said sorry so many times.. I gave up.... We get home and it happens again... I asked him to go... I have been there for him now I feel I want out....is that just me being selfish or is it time for him to go.... My friend has mentioned that he does belittle me in front of people... And I can't go or do anything u less he says the 'oh right'.in such h away I don't do anything.. I am not afraid of being alone just want to know if I am doing the right thing.