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Need leave from my partner

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Kirma · 11/02/2018 00:00

Hi girls
Sorry for the big post I have nowwjeee to speak I feel so alone and in big trouble.
I leave with my partner and his mum they are both drinking to much and many times they fighting and getting angry sometimes with me.
My partner is violence some times no with me yet but he scared me so much,He broke things,speak very bad.
We deside to leave from this house and rent without his mum.he promise me that he will stop drinking ,that make me happy in beginning but now I see that he will never stop drinking.
We have a little boy 10months and I have nowhere to go,I leave in England 6 years now.
I need leve him,I don’t want my babe grow up with alcoholic father ans fights...
Tonight is again drunk I told him that I will no rent any house with him now he went out....
What can I do ?
Please help me

OP posts:
Mrstumbletap · 11/02/2018 00:05

Hi Kirma, sorry to hear you are having such a hard time.

Have you heard of women’s aid? They could give you advice.

Do you work? Do you have any money of your own you could start saving to get out of the relationship? Do you have any family or friends in England?

Flowers54 · 11/02/2018 00:05

If your partner is alxohol dependent ot is likely he will not be able to stop drinking suddenly. If he wants to he couod get support to safely come off alcohol through his local community alcohol team which he could access through his GP.
If he does not want the help, then it seems the safest thing is for you and your child to leave.

PinotMwah · 11/02/2018 00:26

Get in touch with Women's Aid:
www.womensaid.org.uk/

0808 2000 247

You do need to get out and they can help you. You might need to be persistent as the phones are largely staffed by volunteers but they will call you back.

It sounds as if English is not your first language: do you have friends here? Is there anyone else who can help you?

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