advice please!,
having big problems with my step mother in law!!
my partners mum passed away and the step mums thinks she's his mum.
my son doesn't see my mum(nana) and my dad passed so my partners family is important but she just takes things way over the top she's an alcoholic, yet tries to deny it. She wants to have my son over night yet I don't trust her, she always wants to have him alone, yet she was a terrible mother and what I've seen when I did let her look after him(was in the kitchen she was in the living room) he was screaming the house down, as soon as she goes near him he cries and runs away? :s I'm not sure what's she's done, coz around strangers he's fine so it's not that he don't know her....
he's fine with my partners dad to, but if he plays with my son and she comes over he will again run away crying. I don't want to come out right and be like I don't trust you and I don't want you near my son coz she will shut down my partners dad from coming here, she will generally make his life hell if he comes alone. that's not just my problem with her she once tried to get my son to call her mummy, and has told all her friends that she has him all the time and that she basically brings him up,and she's showin strangers pictures of our son, she never has him she's never around him alone so not sure why she's saying that, she told my partner to leave me as I'm not good enough for him, he shot it down straight away and she didn't like that she stop my partner dad from coming around for 6 months 😐😐😐😐😐I don't even know what to do about this :( shes constantly messaging me, and calling me throwing digs at me.