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Contact between 1st and 2nd date?

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popsugar · 09/02/2018 09:43

I had a date went well, he contact me within 30 mins of date saying "thanks for lovely evening, next time I would like to take you to dinner"

I responded that I enjoyed it etc and dinner sounded great, we carried on messaging for bit then said goodnight.

Since then I haven't heard anything (2 days now)

Unsure what to read into this, what is usual contact between 1st and 2nd date?

From your own experiences do you think this is odd/red flag?

OP posts:
ComtesseDeSpair · 09/02/2018 14:41

I wouldn't necessarily read much into it. Some people are text-happy, others less so. I don't text people I'm in the very early stages of dating anything close to every day. I have close friends I don't text every day. Near strangers aren't going to be treated any differently! Daily text contact is just never something I've gotten into. Not texting doesn't mean I don't like somebody - more just that I presume men I've only seen once or a handful of times aren't really interested in the minutiae of my everyday life and I'd rather save conversation to in person or proper texts about something out of the ordinary.

I think messaging later or tomorrow to ask how his weekend is going and if would he like to go out again one day this week etc is well-pitched, personally.

Happydoingitjusttheonce · 09/02/2018 14:43

Nice one popsugar. Based on my own behaviour, if he wasn’t too interested he wouldn’t have replied right away. Enjoy the chat and the second date!

ginch · 09/02/2018 14:45

Good luck popsugar, be nice to hear a happy outcome.

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