Myself and DP have always been close and loved seeing one another. We used to make a real effort. Even when we first moved in to watch films together, sex etc. Since dd we just seem to be getting a bit distant. He pisses me off but I still want to be with him. It's just now I'm pregnant with ds and back to work we seem to have less time.
He has been let go from his job do he has plenty of time for gaming but it seems like every 5 mins if he's not thinking about dd he's thinking about gaming. I can't remember the last time we watched a film together. I was hoping something for valentines day although we won't leave dd with anyone as we worry about her terrible, it'll probably be me cleaning in my 5 mins and him on xbox.
Sex really hurts and I feel like I need more to get over it but that's like every 2 weeks now..
Is this what happens? He's lovely in other ways, he cares deeply for me. Gives me a massage if i need it and helps me wash my hair in the bath now I'm heavily pregnant but every time he comes to bed to spend time to watch a film with me, within 5 mins he's asleep. An this is at midnight :(